There are people in our lives for which, I believe, God gifts us. Sometimes these gifts are not ones we asked for but they were exactly what we needed. It's like a birthday or Christmas present that when you open it you say, "Wow, how perfect! I didn't even know I wanted one!" I actually have a friend who has this gift giving skill. It's divine to be on the receiving end!
Even more divine is when God gifts you with people whom you can be your true self resulting in people who know you a little too well. I have one friend who can tell from the tone in my voice over the phone that something is not right, even when I am trying to keep it light, and she will ask me what's wrong. I have another friend that can pull things deep out of me from out of nowhere, sort of supernaturally. Then there's the friend I work with that if I want to hide something from her, I better just physically hide from her. She has a remarkable gift of reading me like a book! I wonder if I am just easy to read. Maybe so, but I do try sometimes with all of these friends and almost always without success. I can assure you, I never asked for this gift but I am incredibly thankful for it most of the time.
I have a very special group of friends that I meet with once a week where we share the good, bad and the ugly of each of our lives. The group keeps us accountable to taking care of our spiritual lives which bleeds into every other area of our lives. I love this group for many reasons but mainly because of the closeness that has come out of it. Even though we admit what we do that is not living our lives as Christ taught, we are growing closer together. This is another one of those gifts I received that I never knew I needed.
Last week, I was very angry at God which is another story for another time. I have never been mad at God, at least not that intensely. This happened to be the day our group was meeting and I did not want to deal with it nor "burden" my friends with this...yet anyway. I emailed the group to say I wasn't feeling well and was going home so would not be meeting. We meet where I work so it's very convenient for me except for this day. I went to leave a little before our meeting time and realized that I locked my keys in the car. In comes one from the group who knew I had been upset and thought this (the key situation) was funny and a sign that I should go ahead and meet. I did go and I was so glad I did.
Every one of these friends can hear a dilemma I may have and know precisely how to solve it. Every one of these friends will ask me later if I did what I was supposed to do. Every one of these friends will offer to help if I don't ask. They see things in me that I never would have found on my own; mostly good but sometimes not so much.
Then there are the new friends I made recently by moving to a new town as well as the the new/old friends and family made/found on Facebook this past year. These friends are also a surprise blessing for which I never knew to ask. I'm loving getting to know so many better and being privy to parts of their lives I would never have been able to without this awesome bit of technology.
I know this sounds very one sided and I do try to be the kind of friend they need, but I felt compelled to write because I find myself so very thankful for these precious gifts more and more lately.